Instead of becoming a slave to dieting, I thought of changing my mindset and start embracing how I look now.  It’s not that bad really.  Although I still feel sad not being able to wear my size zero clothes anymore, I realized that I have to be realistic that I can’t lose 10 pounds in a flick of a finger!  Especially so that I have to keep healthy nowadays to be able to cope with caring for two young kids.  So it’s a big NO to crash dieting and NO even to the best diet pills out there.